
File this under the category 'Longevity Tips'. I routinely come across resident-written blogs featuring declarations that the magic has left them, that things feel routine, that nothing new is being said or done. I completely understand. Some months ago, I felt the same sort of malaise and world-weariness ... almost a
weltschmerz. I tried everything I could think of to shake it: explored the world, inserted myself into new communities, tried new activities -- all to no avail. I decided to end it all. I left SL.
I came back a few months later, recharged by my time away. Most of my friends were still there, seemingly newer for having had things happen to them in my absence. New creations had appeared. New toys, new animations, new activities -- a lot had happened during my time away, which I might not actually have noticed if I had remained. Part of that is my fault that I was no great explorer to begin with, but preferred to remain in the Shelter, where I knew I would get the interaction I craved. The other part of it is simply being unable to see the forest for the trees. To solve the problem, you need to remove yourself from the problem and gain perspective.
This has worked very well for me, and for at least one other resident I can think of: Torrid Midnight. We've written
many things about the controversy Torrid experienced, and her subsequent leavetaking of SL. She's
back now, however, with a new perspective. I'm sure her SL experience is significantly different, and that she's wiser and happier for having taken the time off that she had.
So, for all of you, I wish the same clarity of mind when you need it. Go on sabbatical. Venture out into the Big Blue Room for a spell and take notes. Come back to SL with a fresh look at life. You'll be glad you did, and we'll all benefit.